I’m
recently back from a week in the Lake District. We took the grandsons, and number
two son also came because he had spare holiday and wanted to swim in Ullswater.
He was a massive help with the boys. It is easier in some ways to take them
away, because everything is new. There’s no problem of saying where we are
going for an outing and being answered with a wail of “We’ve been there!” But
there’s no use pretending, we don’t have the stamina we used to have when ours
were young. It does really make me wonder about the wisdom of women leaving it
so very late to have children. I suppose they just have to manage. But the idea
of dealing with teenagers in your sixties makes my blood run cold.
Our son
swam every day, right across the lake and back, every morning. I swam three
mornings, when there was sun; the water wasn’t as cold as I expected, but a bit
of sun, even early in the morning, made a great difference. I haven’t got a wet
suit and don’t want one. My ideal would be swimming nude – it’s the freedom I
like.
The swimming spot. |
Actually
getting in to the lake was a bit of an issue – it’s a stony bottom, quite
painful, and then after a yard or two, large and extremely slippy large stones.
We were reduced to lying in the water and hauling ourselves over the stones by
hand. It was quite undignified, and made us feel like seals – all slick and
graceful in the water and them lolloping about in a clumsy way on land. Water
shoes would have helped of course, but I don’t like swimming in them, either.
The actual
swimming was simply gorgeous. The water is lovely, brown and murky and very
soft, and the views from water level down the lake as the sun lit the mountains
was very beautiful and peaceful. One morning there was even a rainbow. I felt
uplifted for the rest of the day. I wish I could start every day like that.
The weather
was very decent for the Lake District, and so we suggested that older grandson
might like to climb a mountain. He liked the idea, and so we took him up Helvellyn
along Striding Edge, which was pretty ambitious for an eight and a half year
old. He was fantastic – brave and determined, much better at going uphill than
his granny. At the top he was definitely the youngest, and I was definitely the
oldest. This was the first time either I or middle son had seen the view from
the top; it’s always been too misty before. But this time it was wonderfully
clear, and we could see Morecambe Bay.
I was really pleased, because it was a reward for our grandson, since it was his first mountain. On the way down he did complain a bit about tired legs, but as he could still break into a skip and a run we didn’t feel too worried about him.
The view from the top. |
I was really pleased, because it was a reward for our grandson, since it was his first mountain. On the way down he did complain a bit about tired legs, but as he could still break into a skip and a run we didn’t feel too worried about him.
Then we met
my husband who had taken the younger grandson to the lake to paddle, and then
to see alpacas, and then up Aira Force. So a pretty full day even if not a
mountain. We all went up Aira Force
another day, right to the top – the boys are turning into excellent walkers.
Middle son
also climbed Blencathra, but on his own, as we felt two mountains might be
pushing it. He made it up and down much quicker without mother and nephew in
tow!
Blencathra, from the mining museum - steam engine ride and dead diggers and cranes, plus fluorescent crystals - lots of boy and grandad appeal. |
The boys
are just about the right age for Beatrix Potter’s house, and I must say really
enjoyed spotting the places in the books. Recently the younger boy has been
enjoying repetitive readings of Samuel Whiskers, and loved the landing. We seem
to have lost the copy of Pigling Bland, and there were a lot of pictures and
even some genuine pig papers. It’s Pigling
Bland’s centenary. So we bought a new copy.
It made us quite nostalgic - we remembered our son's favourite phrase, when he was about three or four, being from Pigling Bland – “
I wish to preserve them in case of emergency.” I adopted Aunt Pettitoes comment about her family - “They do eat – and indeed
they do eat”!
Another highlight was Castleriggs stone circle. It's in the most beautiful setting, in a bowl of the hills, and the stones seemed to reflect the shapes of the mountains. Whether that was intentional on the part of the builders, or whether I'm imposing a pattern that doesn't really exist, I'm not sure. But I wasn't the only one who thought there was a pattern. The boys found it satisfactorily creepy.
I've only a couple of photos, but hope to add a Striding Edge one when I get one from Will.
The setting of Castleriggs stone circle. |